That Is The Question

“ What you nurture and love and where you put your focus, it will grow” Mirjana Mut

To Be Arrogant or To Be Humble

Arrogance and hunger for power are just the opposite pole of confidence. Those who feel worthless inside will always be in need of external validation. They will also have a need of feeling of power over other people. If you have a healthy self-esteem you will not have a need for the praise or approbation of others. If you are arrogant it only shows that you are desperate because of feeling not well about yourself and you think that such arrogant behavior will protect you from others to recognize your weakness. The bad side of that is that if you put so much attention on other people’s opinion and approval it will take your focus from yourself, so that you become even weaker in doing that what is your purpose, your dream your Heart Desire.

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11.11.11.

Is there any mystery about November 11.2011?

People ask me what will happen on Friday, November 11.2011. The question comes with a suggestion that on Friday we shall have 11.11.11. date.

But, it is not true. On Friday, November 11.2011., as numerological calculation we shall have 11-11-2011, not 11-11-11. November 11 this year is the same as November 11 in any other year, except in 2009. In 2009 we had 11.11.11. case with additional subtle zest of zero that we can ignore in the number of the year.

This November 11 has a certain potential as a day, but not as the whole date. Actually 11.11.11. is a misinterpreted date of 11.11.2011. because in numerology the complete date is used in calculations. There is no chance to transform 2011 into 11. 2011 is 4. From numerology point of view the coming Friday does not have any divine significance as a date. It has a nice touch of number 11 in the day as every other time when number 11 occurs as a part of a date, which could also be if the day is 29^th in the month.

Soul Mate

“Our soul mate is the one who makes life come to life.” Richard Bach

Introspective Game

One of writings I like very much since I have heard the first time about it during my study of literature is The Symposium, a philosophical text by Plato. It explores different approaches about Eros presented in the form of speech given by seven men. Their names are: Phaedrus, Pausanias, Eryximachus, Aristophanes, Agathon, Socrates and Alcibiades. Each of them delivered a praise of Eros during the drinking party. In vino veritas.

Plato’s Mythology

For the purpose of my writing here, only one speech is relevant, the speech of Aristophanes, famous playwright of the ancient time. Through his speech Plato presented a myth of souls who are longing to find the lost half of self in order to become a whole again. That myth doesn’t come from the Greek Mythology, but from Plato’s genius. He reveals that in the beginning there were three parents: Sun, Moon, and Earth, each producing their offspring. Men came from Sun, women from Earth and androgynies from Moon. They each had one head with two faces, looking out in the opposite directions, and double pair of arms, legs and genitalia. They were not only different from today’s humans, but they also had more power and freedom and moved with a double speed. As they wanted to compete with gods, Zeus decided to punish their arrogance by taking from them their power and their speed. He cut them in half with an idea to continue the same if they do not learn the lesson. Apollo was his right arm in this operation. He turned their face inward, gathering their all skin together with an opening in the middle to remind them to their primary state. These new creatures were lost and desperate because of this separation. When they started starving to death, Apollo, following again Zeus’s new instructions, helped them to rejoin temporarily. With his second intervention, these creatures have got an idea of rejoining with their another half in order to become the whole. Doubled women from before wanted to be with another woman, doubled men from before wanted to be with another man and the androgynous wanted to have the opposite gender. The seed of the soul mate story was planted with that mythology. This myth has got many additional details and versions over the time.

Like attracts like

Plato’s myth becomes a part of my soul mate story, but more as an explanation why we have that longing. Aside of that, I am more interested in the psychological connotations of soul mate phenomenon and what is its impact on our life for the benefits of our personal growth.

‘Like attracts like’ is one of The Universe Laws. When we love we can attract only love. I like the idea that we create soul mate with the level of our consciousness. If we have a clear image of our soul mate, as more clear to the very details this image is as more chances we have to attract such an image. The same time, as more we consider ourselves as a complete being, there is more probability to attract such him/her.

Why do we need the idea about soul mate?

When we think about soul mate we project our wishes which are mainly based only on positives especially in the youth. But, even when our fantasy wants to attract soul mate with only positives, it is not possible. We are not one-sided; our soul mate is not as well. Perfect Mr./Mrs. Soul Mate doesn’t exist. It is only our fantasy that dreams about positives. In reality, with our sub consciousness we attract our disowned parts as subconsciously we know that it is the best way to work on ourself.

It seems that thinking about soul mate is an interesting introspective game. We recognize our positives and consciously attract positives and not recognizing consciously our negatives, we subconsciously attract soul mate that have our negatives, as having ours in mirror is the best way to work them out.

It seems like the soul mate story is one of the helping synchronicities for our personal growth. It is possible that in the end effect something we consider as positives turns into the opposite and something we considered as negatives turns into the very useful positive.

In my shop you can find Relationship Compatibility Analysis which reveals what kind of energy is combined in yours and your partner’s code. Showing where your compatibility and incompatibility are, this analysis offers useful suggestions on how to overcome psychological differences and to help partners to influence each other’s personal growth.

Magic of Numerology

Three Little Dragons

We keep the magic ball,
Just follow your star,
You’ll reach a lofty goal,
Revealing who you are.

If you really want to play,
Don’t hesitate, just stay,
Enjoy your creativity,
Drink of your immortality.

Dragons and lions together,
Find the magic ball,
Peace and love forever,
You reach your magic goal.

The Meaning of 21-12-2012

My close friend asked me about 21-12-2012. He wanted me to make a numerology analysis for 2012. I didn’t know where my work and thoughts would bring me. It turned to be as inspiring as writing a poem. Thoughts and words were coming from my knowledge of numerology, from the consciousness of my heart and from the deepest visualization of my being. For making this happen I feel very grateful to my friend as his question inspired my answer.

21.12.2012

The fact that number 11 works within spiritual, visionary, magically transcendental and illuminating realms of creation stays as a dominant aspect for this date as well. Joy, love and creativity become a guidance for this date from which as a result of a grand change we should be brought to the higher consciousness of love. This day somehow will turn to the day of teaching that life on earth can be playful, joyful and trustful. The measures for this moment of change will be smile and hug. Therefore I am not confused that there are ‘Hug it forward’ or similar human actions all over the world showing that we are approaching a time of change now. The year of change in accordance with the energy of joyful day brings the time of boundless creativity. The abilities to imagine a positive future enhances from that day making it easier to create reality. Reality and what is imagined are not far away from each other, they synergies each other. People will be happy to inspire each other in mutual service realizing the healing affects of such a behavior. This healing effect will influence positively every single being involved and the chain of changes will cure the Earth. The huge smile that will hug the Earth will spread as a wave through the Universe bringing a message of harmony.
The importance of everything that has been divided people for centuries, like the meaning of races, gender or nations will disappear. All these changes happen in a gentle way. Strength and integrity are there, but balanced. Awareness about polarities is there, so that duality is not a dominant thought, but balanced in between. The feeling that higher forces are working alongside will be there too, naturally as a part of each and everyone like the breathing. That will shift awareness and responsibility of self and others on the very primary plane of consciousness. Oneness is not a guiding symbol any more; it becomes a reality.
That is how I interpret this date.
I do hope that my vision becomes yours too.

The Mission of Your Name

If names are not correct, language will not be in accordance with the truth of things.

Confucius

Changing a Name- Your New Identity

Your name tells what you are and what rate of consciousness you have reached. It tells what power you have attained. It represents all aspects of your personality, it is your true expression. Only when you change your consciousness you change your name. It is not something to be done on impulse or because of some superficial or so called trend reasons. Your birth name is you either you like it or not. Your name carries the wisdom you have gained. This wisdom is stored in your soul. Understanding the vibration of your name will bring you closer to your soul and this wisdom. It will help you to understand the growth of your soul and character bringing you farther on in your evolution.

The influence of a new chosen name is minor in comparison to a birth name, although a new chosen name can compensate some missing or out of balance characteristics in a birth name. I always advice my clients to first know themselves psychologically by understanding their given birth name before thinking about any name change. In most cases knowing oneself solves lots of problems which seemed to be unsolvable.

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